Growth, Authenticity, and Connection
My decision to become a Toastmaster, has led me to a significant transformation, not just in my communication and leadership skills but in my approach to life itself. At Toastmasters, my focus isn’t merely on delivering flawless speeches, it’s about learning to articulate my thoughts clearly, embracing vulnerability, and connecting with an audience on a deeper level. Each speech I delivered was a step towards understanding myself better— my fears, my passions, and my potential. Through constructive feedback and support from fellow members, I learned that growth is a continuous journey. This realization gave me a mindset shift from striving for perfection to embracing progress.
Beyond the skills we learn, Toastmasters has taught me the importance of presence and authenticity. In our fast-paced world, we often focus on what we are saying rather than how we are saying it. We forget that genuine connection arises when we are fully present, listening as much as we speak, and showing up as our authentic selves. Toastmasters provided a safe space to practice this authenticity, helping me understand that effective communication is not about impressing others but about sharing a piece of oneself with honesty and empathy.
The impact of this journey extends far beyond the confines of the meeting room. It has influenced my professional life by enhancing my ability to articulate ideas confidently and build meaningful relationships within this fraternity. I have formed distinct bonds with people from diverse backgrounds, whom I would not have met otherwise. It has enriched my personal life by teaching me the value of being fully present and vulnerable in conversations.
AIN Toastmasters Club is more than a club; it is a mirror reflecting my growth and a reminder that the most powerful stories we tell are the ones that reveal our true selves.
Shivani Chemjong
Area A2 Director, Division A